Modern Dating

Purity and the Economics of Commitment

The value of a partner is assessed differently by each sex based on their respective reproductive strategies. While women prioritise status, resources, and strength, men prioritise purity and loyalty.

Purity is not merely a social construct but a biological indicator of the probability of future fidelity and relationship stability. A history of promiscuity, often referred to as a high body count, statistically correlates with higher rates of divorce and relationship dissatisfaction.

In the modern context, women often attempt to conceal or rationalise their past sexual behaviour, arguing that it should not matter. This creates a market asymmetry where the seller attempts to obscure the mileage of the vehicle being sold.

Men, however, possess an innate mechanism for detecting this devaluation, often experiencing a visceral reaction known as the ick. This feeling serves as a subconscious warning system against investing resources in a partner who displays signs of instability or low value.

The calculation of value involves complex variables including body count, the presence of children from previous unions, and behavioural baggage. A woman who brings children from another man into a relationship imposes a significant cost on a new partner, effectively asking him to invest in genetic progeny that are not his own.

This scenario is likened to a debt that the man must service. As such, the market value of a potential partner decreases as these liabilities accumulate. The refusal to acknowledge this reality leads to a surplus of individuals who believe they are entitled to high-value commitment despite possessing low-value attributes.

Psychological Regression and Societal Maturity

The dysfunction in modern relationships is further exacerbated by a general decline in psychological maturity. Human consciousness develops through distinct levels, moving from egocentric desire to ethnocentric conformity, and eventually to worldcentric integration.

A significant portion of the modern population remains arrested at the lower levels of this development, primarily the levels of desire and egocentrism.

At the lowest levels, individuals are driven solely by immediate gratification and the avoidance of discomfort. They lack the capacity for second-person perspective, which is the ability to understand that other individuals possess distinct needs and thoughts.

This is exemplified by the behaviour of the AWFUL—the Affluent White Female Urban Liberal. This demographic is characterised by a high degree of entitlement and a propensity to treat the world as a nursery where their emotional needs must be met by external authorities.

This regression manifests in behaviours such as the bird hands gesture, a physical manifestation of nagging and henpecking where the pecking of hands mimic a beak opening and closing. It signals a demand for compliance and a belief that one's own perceptions of reality should override objective facts.

When individuals at this level of development engage in politics or relationships, they project their own infantile needs onto the world. They view boundaries as oppression and disagreement as hatred. They are incapable of the higher-level thinking required to maintain a functional civilisation, which involves the recognition of competing interests and the necessity of trade-offs.

The phenomenon of the modern woman behaving like a child—or a beaver building a dam out of nonsensical objects—illustrates the misapplication of biological instincts.

Without children to nurture, the maternal instinct is often redirected towards pets, minorities, or political causes, which are treated as helpless infants requiring protection from the falsely perceived evils of the masculine world. This leads to political choices that prioritise emotional comfort over structural stability, effectively dismantling the systems of provision and order that allowed such comfort to exist in the first place.

The Role of Technology

Technology has played a pivotal role in accelerating these trends. Social media algorithms and dating applications have disrupted the natural mechanisms of human interaction.

In the past, attraction often grew from familiarity and proximity, allowing average men to demonstrate their value over time through character and competence.

This was the Batman to Democrat scale, where a man could increase his attractiveness by demonstrating masculine virtues (Batman points) and decrease it by displaying weakness or neuroticism (Democrat points).

Today, technology creates a hyper-efficient but ultimately hollow marketplace. It allows for the artificial inflation of perceived value. Women on social media receive a deluge of attention that mimics the signals of high sexual market value, leading to a distortion of their self-perception.

This is the *standard female delusion*, where average women believe they are entitled to the top percentile of men because they can access them for casual encounters, failing to distinguish between sexual access and relationship commitment.

Furthermore, technology facilitates psychological operations, or psyops, which manipulate the subconscious mind. By stimulating the limbic system with fear or desire, external actors can bypass the neocortex - the thinking brain - and implant narratives that serve specific agendas.

This renders the population, particularly those high in agreeableness and low in critical thinking, susceptible to mass formation and collective delusions. The result is a society of individuals who are easily led, emotionally volatile, and detached from the objective reality of cause and effect.

The current state of modern attraction and power dynamics represents a deviation from the historical norms that sustained human pair-bonding.

The marketplace is characterised by an abundance of low-value participants demanding high-value rewards. Women, encouraged by cultural narratives of empowerment that ignore biological reality, increasingly adopt the position of the table, expecting provision without reciprocity.

Men, faced with a landscape where their traditional contributions are undervalued and their strength is demonised, are withdrawing from the market or adopting short-term mating strategies.

The restoration of balance requires a return to reality. It necessitates an acknowledgement that relationships are inherently transactional, requiring the exchange of value for value. It requires men to cultivate strength and assertiveness, rejecting the false virtue of weakness. It requires women to recognise that their choices have consequences and that purity and cooperation remain the most valuable currencies they can offer.

Without a shift towards higher levels of psychological maturity and a rejection of the egocentric narratives propagated by modern media, the trajectory points towards increasing isolation, social fragmentation, and the eventual collapse of the cooperative structures that underpin civilisation.

The path forward lies not in the denial of nature, but in the intelligent integration of biological imperatives with the responsibilities of adult consciousness.